Manicorn: Just like the perfect man, he does not exist. The reason he does not exist include...
Let me back up. I have quite a few female friends. Single female friends. They are intelligent, attractive, funny, kind, and successful and 80% of them love sports. They are doctors, lawyers, bankers, have PhD's, NP's etc... Only about a third of them can really cook though, but that another topic. All of them are strong women too. Maybe too strong and that brings me back to my reasons why he does not exist:
-We all fall short of the glory of God. No man is perfect. OK! I just wanted to put that out there.
- A LOT of them are hypocrites. They say the want something, but when a brother presents himself saying he wants those same thing, they overlook that guy. Happens all the time. She wants a that wants to be in a relationship, but he isn't tall enough. Oh it happens. Someone has told me " He is a good guy, but he's so short "
- You are never satisfied. No fancy story or anything. If you did meet your perfect man, you'd find something wrong with him one way or another
I know what you all are going to say, " why should I settle?" Being realistic isn't settling. You can't be waiting around for Denzel when you look like Whoopi. You can't sit there and say that he has to have a six pack when you're rocking a muffin top. Also, miss me with that he has to be on a certain level crap too. That doctor/lawyer/whatever is banging his secretary while that construction worker is working hard just for you. Said all all that to say, he's out there. Just maybe not where you think he is.
I love my female friends and sincerely want to see them happy, but they are getting in their own way of happiness.
Thoughts.......
Let me back up. I have quite a few female friends. Single female friends. They are intelligent, attractive, funny, kind, and successful and 80% of them love sports. They are doctors, lawyers, bankers, have PhD's, NP's etc... Only about a third of them can really cook though, but that another topic. All of them are strong women too. Maybe too strong and that brings me back to my reasons why he does not exist:
-We all fall short of the glory of God. No man is perfect. OK! I just wanted to put that out there.
- A LOT of them are hypocrites. They say the want something, but when a brother presents himself saying he wants those same thing, they overlook that guy. Happens all the time. She wants a that wants to be in a relationship, but he isn't tall enough. Oh it happens. Someone has told me " He is a good guy, but he's so short "
- You are never satisfied. No fancy story or anything. If you did meet your perfect man, you'd find something wrong with him one way or another
I know what you all are going to say, " why should I settle?" Being realistic isn't settling. You can't be waiting around for Denzel when you look like Whoopi. You can't sit there and say that he has to have a six pack when you're rocking a muffin top. Also, miss me with that he has to be on a certain level crap too. That doctor/lawyer/whatever is banging his secretary while that construction worker is working hard just for you. Said all all that to say, he's out there. Just maybe not where you think he is.
I love my female friends and sincerely want to see them happy, but they are getting in their own way of happiness.
Thoughts.......
Here's two nice Mixes from two of my favorite artists, thanks to fwmj and his crew for putting these together.
Enjoy....
Stevie Wonder Mix
1.Contution Intro
2. Living For The City
3. You’ve Got It Bad Girl
4. Rocket Love/Rocket Love (YNQ Interpretation)
5. Boogie On Reggae Woman
6. That Girl
7. Sir Duke
8. Golden Lady
8. Golden Lady
9. Too High
10. Superwoman
11. Knocks Me Off My Feet
12. Overjoyed
Marvin Gaye Mix
1. I Want You
2. Soon I’ll Be Loving You Again
3. You Sure Love To Ball
4. Just To Keep You Satisfied
5. Trouble Man
6. Cleo’s Apartment
7. Sad Tomorrows
8. What’s Going On
9. Anna’s Song
10. Anger (Extended Alternate Take)
11. Closing Theme / I want You (Live)
2. Soon I’ll Be Loving You Again
3. You Sure Love To Ball
4. Just To Keep You Satisfied
5. Trouble Man
6. Cleo’s Apartment
7. Sad Tomorrows
8. What’s Going On
9. Anna’s Song
10. Anger (Extended Alternate Take)
11. Closing Theme / I want You (Live)
